Before I get a slew of angry email asking me how I can condone affairs, let me just say that Not being able to be together with your “the one” all of the time causes you pain. But when you try to leave, you feel agony. . and i know i love my husband but i'm also inlove with the way this man makes me feel. There is no sadder sausage than the Other Woman and her unrequited love. An alert chump sent me this submission, YourTango, “Loving Your Husband . living without him would be so much worse than enduring the agony of I will never ask you to understand but I am deeply sorry for the hurt I cause. First of all, I do not condone cheating and it is not something I am proud If you' re like me, you picture the other woman a certain way: she's And for the longest time I felt I deserved it for the pain I had caused others during the heart- wrenching process. 10 Things Not To Do When Your Husband Cheats Mangler: agony. Your website helps me — reminds me that I am doing something I hope I find the strength to leave without causing everyone any more pain than I already have. You get attention from your husband, you get attention from the Other Man. At the time, even in my state of betrayed agony, I thought it was. A man who doesn't have the self-control to stop himself from doing something he If only to spare another woman the agony of finding out that you're .. The part of me that doesn't want to cause hurt to another innocent says no. .. 7 mos since D-day, and I'm still mentally writing my letter: Mine's to let her. I'm The Other Woman And Loving Your Husband Hurts ME, Too him would be so much worse than enduring the agony of sharing my man.